Daniel
Newish to all this and still working out what I actually want — so think exploration, not a fixed destination :)
who I am, fast
A few things that'll tell you
who I am, quickly
the actual texture
What I'm actually like
Deeply curious, rationalist / EA-adjacent, and thoroughly allergic to bureaucracy.
Neurospicy and proud — autism is my hyperfocus superpower, and the (probably) ADHD is infinite energy for new things, minus about 30% executive function.
Playful — but only once I feel safe, and nothing gets my walls down faster than someone who loves whimsy as much as I do. Lowkey introverted too: I love talking to people, but I'll need the occasional break. I promise I'm still having a good time :3
the rabbit holes
Things I'm into
Too many to list — it's a genuine problem. The rule is basically: if it sounds fun, I'm in.
the cheat codes
You'll win me over if…
- 01you'll set the scene with me in improv“yes, and—” is basically my love language
- 02you'll be my dance partneranywhere, any genre, zero skill required
- 03you inspire me to growI'm here for exploration — bring your edges
- 04you'll ramble to me about your nerdy obsessionsthe more niche, the better. go on.
the practical bits
The honest logistics
I've got an oral fixation I love indulged while we cuddle — no notes, don't @ me.
💞 Kink positive — happy to talk more :)
the receipts
Still to come
honestly the best evidence I'll offer
on repeat
What I've been listening to
Fair warning: a lot of it is in languages I don't speak. They're just that earwormy.
your move
Say hi :)
No pressure, no script — though if you want to win style points, set the scene.